Hey Guys, its been so long since I last posted. I’m gonna keep this consistent this year and its gonna grow. I’m gonna add so many things including my 52 books for this year and outfits that I like, so stay tuned 🙂
Update on Me:
- I’ve gained 25 pounds over the past semester so now I weigh about 173.
- I’ve changed my major to Nursing from Biology to help my moms.
- I know now that my passion is in Business. I started to learn a lot and trade in the stock market and have been flipping things on eBay.
Sorry guys, I know my update isn’t a successful one but its real
Caring About the Opinions of Other People:
I care a lot about the opinions of other people. In my life, in every instance, I walk around thinking about how other people will interpret my actions and what I say. Even the smallest of things like how I walk, when I want to talk during class, or the biggest of things like when I lead a group of people. It eats away at me to not want to have people think of me negatively. I try to not do anything that would allow someone to have a negative opinion of me and that’s a problem because it hinders my happiness. I’m gonna speak like I’m talking to you in the next paragraphs and I am but I’m also talking to myself.
Quite frankly, everyone passes away. Those who laugh at you or judge what you do will all pass away. You will pass away. Why would you not fulfill what you want in life because of the opinions of other people? You miss out on opportunities and fun because you worry about what the next person will think of you. You worry about if they agree with what you’re doing or think you’re annoying. At the moment, it may seem like a fair trade to keep the feeling of fake comfort in exchange for not doing what you want to do but in actuality, the sense of fake comfort is a plague that will only hinder your life. These things compound and sooner or later, you are not acting on your own will but the will of someone else who doesn’t go through the regret of not doing what you wanted to do. The only person who takes on regret is YOU. Not even on the big and grand scale of achieving your goals, but I’m talking about the daily care you give to the opinions of other people. Living that way will only take away from your life.
These small everyday intrusions you allow other people to take contributes to the overall outcome of your life. And in the end, on your death bed, you don’t want to regret not doing things because you were scared about what other people would think of you. You will die, and they will also, live your life how you want to and they will do the same. But to allow SOMEONE ELSE to intrude on your life with their opinions to influence how you live will always be the wrong choice. The other people in your class, the strangers on the street, none of these people will care when you pass so why would you care about their opinions now.
Live your life, do what you think is right, and don’t care about what others think. Do what you think will fulfill your life EVERYDAY.
Thanks for tuning in y’all. HMU in the comments andddd have a blessed day. I’m gonna be on this again! and its gonna grow A LOT